Essays · Yoga Sutras of Patanjali 1.33–1.39
Stabilizing & Clearing the Mind
Nine preparatory practices for settling a clouded mind. Before the subtler meditations become possible, the mind needs a foundation of one-pointedness — the way an athlete’s specialized skill rests on general fitness. These are the exercises that build it.
chitta prasadanam— the mind field made clear, serene, and undisturbed
1.33
The Four Attitudes Toward People
Most of our relationship friction falls into four situations. For each one the mind has a quiet reactive tendency — and for each, a specific attitude to cultivate as its antidote. Memorizing these four and watching for them in daily life makes the vagaries of the mind far easier to see and regulate.
maitri · friendliness
Toward those who are happy
- The mind tends toward
- Resistance or distance — on an off day, a small aversion to people who are joyful, even friends and family.
- Cultivate instead
- Friendliness and kindness. Notice the tendency, then consciously meet their happiness with warmth. This stabilizes and calms.
karuna · compassion
Toward those who suffer
- The mind tends toward
- Feeling imposed upon or frustrated — someone falls ill just as you had other plans. Not psychopathology; an ordinary habit of mind.
- Cultivate instead
- Compassion and support. Not suppression of the contrary feeling, but awareness of it, and lovingly choosing to act from care.
mudita · goodwill
Toward the virtuous
- The mind tends toward
- Inadequacy or jealousy — quietly pushing against those acting benevolently, sensing there is more we ourselves could be doing.
- Cultivate instead
- Happiness and goodwill. As you witness the inner process without attachment, humor arises — and the goodwill begins to come naturally.
upeksha · neutrality
Toward those we judge wicked
- The mind tends toward
- Anger and aversion at conduct we find unacceptable. However justified the feeling, we still carry its burden ourselves.
- Cultivate instead
- Neutrality, equanimity, acceptance. This is not approval of the behavior — it is inner balance, and it often does more to enable change.
1.34–1.38
Five Objects of Focus
Alongside the four attitudes, five specific supports are offered for steadying attention. Any one of them, practiced with one-pointedness, calms and clears the mind.
- 1.34
Breath awarenessRegulation and observation of the breath
- 1.35
SensationSteadying the mind on subtle sense experience
- 1.36
Inner luminosityThe serene, sorrowless inner light
- 1.37
Contemplation on a stable mindResting attention on one who is free of attachment
- 1.38
The stream of the mindFocusing on the flow of mental states
1.39 · Whatever serves you. Finally, you may steady the mind on anything you find genuinely pleasing and useful. The method matters less than the one-pointedness it builds.
In practice
How to Practice
The work happens in two places — in quiet sitting, and in the ordinary friction of the day. Neither substitutes for the other.
In quiet time
- Choose one of the four attitudes. Let a person, or several people, arise in the mind field.
- Notice your actual reaction — the coloring that arrives with the impression. Do not correct it yet. See it.
- Rest attention on that inner impression while cultivating the useful attitude toward it.
- The coloring gradually weakens and attenuates (2.4). That attenuation is the whole mechanism.
- Work all four in a sitting, or stay with a single attitude for an extended period. Either is valid.
In daily life
- Memorize the four. They are short enough to carry, which is precisely the point.
- Watch for the small tendency, not the gross one. The mind is rarely wholly negative; it is the faint tilt you are after.
- Check all three positions: acting on it yourself, getting another to act for you, or quietly approving when it happens anyway. The inner effect is the same (2.34).
- Start small. Work a distant, minor grievance before a large one — shallow understanding is a good tool for deeper understanding.
When negativity arises — cultivate the opposite
PRATIPAKSHA BHAVANAM · 2.33–2.34
- Name it in plain internal speech: Mind, this is not useful. This attitude will bring nothing but pain. Let it go.
- Then state the antidote directly: I need to cultivate friendliness with this person — or compassion, goodwill, or neutrality, as the case calls for.
- Do not suppress the contrary feeling. Awareness first, then lovingly choosing to act from care.
- What goes unnoticed does not go away. Unawareness leaves disturbances in the unconscious that surface later and disturb meditation.
What this is not
- Not suppression of what you actually feel.
- Not approval. Equanimity toward someone’s conduct is not endorsement of it — and often does more to enable change than aversion does.
- Not a replacement for your other principles about how to treat people. It sits alongside them.
- Not a perfection test. This is the gradual clearing of a clouded mind, not a purity standard.
What makes it easier
- The yamas (2.30) — the ethical restraints — make all of this markedly less effortful. The ground supports the practice.
- Witnessing without attachment tends to produce humor. The mind starts to look like a very funny instrument, and when that arrives, goodwill comes on its own.
- Two of the four situations recur far more than the others for most people. Notice which two are yours and weight your practice accordingly.
Keep in mind
Before You Begin
A few orienting reminders that keep these practices in their proper place.
- Don’t skip the basics.Bypassing this training of the mind is tempting but a serious mistake — meditation then becomes little more than a fight with your own mind.
- These are preparation, not the destination.They stabilize and clear the mind so subtler meditations and samadhi become possible. Many schools stop here at the calming benefits; few go on toward Self-realization.
- Stabilizing differs from discriminating.Here you are calming and clarifying the mind — not yet discriminating and setting aside what arises from ignorance. That finer work belongs to the later practices.
- They deepen later.Once samyama is possible, each attitude becomes an object of samadhi itself, and that razor-fine absorption brings the attitude to perfection (3.24).
Glossary
Sanskrit Terms
The words of sutra 1.33, in order
- maitri
- friendliness, lovingness
- karuna
- compassion, mercy
- mudita
- gladness, goodwill
- upekshanam
- equanimity, neutrality, acceptance
- sukha
- happy, joyous, comfortable
- duhkha
- pain, suffering, sorrow
- punya
- virtuous, meritorious
- apunya
- non-virtuous, wicked
- vishayanam
- regarding those subjects
- bhavanatah
- by cultivating, by constant reflection
- chitta
- mind field, consciousness
- prasadanam
- clear, serene, undisturbed
Terms used elsewhere in this sheet
- dhyana
- Meditation proper — the specific state, not the broad popular sense (3.2)
- samadhi
- Deep absorption in the object of attention
- samyama
- Dhyana and samadhi applied together as a single instrument (3.4–3.6)
- avidya
- Ignorance; the root miscomprehension underlying the colorings (2.5)
- pratipaksha bhavanam
- Cultivating the opposite when a negative attitude takes hold (2.33–2.34)
- yamas
- The ethical restraints that support and steady practice (2.30)
- coloring
- The attraction or aversion tinting a mental impression; releasing it is uncoloring (1.5)
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