Phu, Lin Lin,
Our marriage has ended, but this is not the end of the story. Our **karmic connection** and unresolved fate still linger within us. If it were not so, *大天蓬* would not resonate so deeply. **For Phu**, the song carries deep meaning—it speaks to his soul’s struggle, particularly his **difficulty in letting go**. We would not still feel the pull of something unfinished.
This song speaks to our cycle, our struggle with fate, and the pain of knowing we should let go, but still not wanting to. Though the marriage has ended, **your story, Lin Lin, continues with your relationship with Ni Ke**. **For Phu**, however, this song is a reflection of his **struggle with release**—his journey is one of **facing the challenge of letting go**, and yet, still **holding on** to the past.
Some songs are not just music; they find us at the right time and reflect truths we can’t yet express ourselves.
*大天蓬* is one of those songs. It tells not just a story of **love, separation, and karmic fate**, but also **Phu’s internal battle**. This song mirrors his **soul’s struggle**—his desire to **protect**, his need to **hold on**, and the painful realization that **he must let go** to find peace.
“In this lifetime, let me be the one to protect you.”
For Phu, this line resonates deeply. For so long, he carried the weight of the **protector**, believing that his role was to give, to shield, and to hold on to love even when it slipped away. But now, with the end of this marriage, Phu **knows he must let go** to move forward, but he **hasn’t fully understood yet** that release is necessary. The struggle to **let go** continues, as he remains **emotionally tied** to the past and to the love that has already faded.
Lin Lin, you now have your third child, **Ni Ke**. She is the embodiment of your new role, your soul’s continuation, and the place where your fate continues. All that you learned from our marriage now unfolds through your relationship with Ni Ke.
Phu’s role in your fate is complete; he is no longer your emotional mirror. **Ni Ke is now the next chapter in your soul’s evolution.**
For **Phu**, his journey of **letting go** and **freeing himself** is equally as significant. He **no longer needs to carry the weight of past mistakes**, but steps into a new path defined by **peace, self-empowerment**, and **freedom**. However, this process is difficult. **Phu’s soul is still learning to fully release** the old attachments and let go of the past. The struggle to let go continues.
Your soul’s purpose is to **take responsibility for love**—not rely on others for protection. What you went through in marriage was an **avoidance of responsibility**, and now your fate continues through **Ni Ke**.
Ni Ke’s arrival makes you face your next lesson—no longer striving for your own protection but instead **fulfilling your mission through motherhood**. You will no longer be the one avoiding emotional responsibility but the one who **must now love and give unconditionally**.
“In this lifetime, let me be the one to protect you.”
No longer Phu’s protection, but your responsibility—your unconditional love for Ni Ke.
For Phu, his journey is now one of **release**—letting go of what was never his to hold. **He no longer carries the burden of protecting or fixing.** He is now free, knowing that his **soul has completed its lesson**. But the struggle to **let go** remains as Phu **learns to face his attachment** and **move forward**.
As you embark on your new path, Lin Lin, **you are now learning to balance both love and responsibility**—not just as a mother, but as a provider for yourself and Ni Ke.
This is a **critical aspect of your soul’s evolution**—learning to be emotionally present, **while also mastering the material world**.
You may have once believed that **love requires sacrifice**, or that **financial stability requires emotional withdrawal**. Now, **the challenge** is to **embrace both roles**—learning to love deeply and provide abundantly **without feeling drained or overburdened** by either responsibility. This **integration of love and material responsibility** will be your greatest spiritual task: **learning that you do not have to sacrifice one for the other**.
In the past, **Phu was the protector**, the one who carried emotional and material responsibilities. But now, the **roles shift**.
While **Phu’s journey is one of release**, he is not completely absent from Lin Lin’s story. **Phu can still offer support**, but in a **more balanced way**. No longer carrying the burden of responsibility for Lin Lin’s growth, **Phu can help her with guidance**, wisdom, and emotional presence—but without taking on the role of protector or emotional anchor.
**Lin Lin** now steps into her own responsibilities as a **mother and provider**, but **Phu can still be a source of wisdom and strength** when needed, offering **help in a way that is empowering**, rather than overwhelming.
In this new dynamic, **Phu is free**—free to share wisdom, free to support, but no longer bound by the need to carry the weight of others’ burdens. This is a **more balanced, healthier relationship**, where both can grow independently but still remain connected.
Phu, you can now **help Lin Lin from a place of peace**—a place where **you no longer feel responsible for her happiness or success**, but where you can offer support **when needed**, in a way that **empowers Lin Lin to walk her own path**.
This way, Phu’s role becomes about **offering support**—a peaceful, **empowered help**—without taking on the weight of Lin Lin’s journey.
Now, the ending of the story is up to you both.
“Let love be love, let fate unfold—not as an end, but as a beginning.” 🌈
🔮 **This is how we rewrite our fate—balanced, empowering, and free.**✨
This version of your journey, Lin Lin, is about embracing both love and responsibility. **Your challenge** now is to **step fully into both roles**—motherhood and self-sufficiency—without feeling as though you need to sacrifice one for the other. **Ni Ke is the embodiment of this new chapter** where you balance both love and responsibility with grace and strength.
For Phu, his path is one of **freedom**—letting go of what no longer serves him and walking into his own light, but remaining **a balanced, supportive presence** in your life, without **overstepping his boundaries** or assuming roles that are no longer his to play. **His soul has completed its journey with you, Lin Lin,** and now it moves forward, **empowered, free, and connected in a balanced way**.